tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697645378581239711.post1881343697643233922..comments2011-05-30T09:50:07.753-07:00Comments on A state of Equilibrium: NO newlywed bliss?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697645378581239711.post-7523495761225779492011-01-23T13:21:25.521-08:002011-01-23T13:21:25.521-08:00Do you initiate, or do you always wait for him? Bu...Do you initiate, or do you always wait for him? But... If you always had to initiate it, it could make you feel bad. <br /><br />I understand how you feel, though. <br /><br />Have you talked to him about this?? If your not happy, tell him!Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09536768597781159490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697645378581239711.post-6390025023177482002011-01-23T12:08:44.004-08:002011-01-23T12:08:44.004-08:00I hope it's not normal. I'm only a month ...I hope it's not normal. I'm only a month ahead of you on the whole newlywed thing.<br /><br />Leaving sex out of the discussion, I hug my wife and kiss her good-bye every morning when I leave, and every evening when I return. Heck, I will just hug her in line at the grocery store. Or get up from my computer, walk across the room, kiss her, and walk back to what I was doing.<br /><br />And even in the morning when the alarm goes off, we ignore it for half an hour just to snuggle. I have said aloud durring that time, "Are all newlyweds like this? I hope so." It appears not.Scopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14671603955380819514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697645378581239711.post-62683494751926056912011-01-23T08:47:17.113-08:002011-01-23T08:47:17.113-08:00OH Let's not even start on this. I just had a ...OH Let's not even start on this. I just had a HUGE blowup with my husband about what I would like for him to do with me and basically got told HE can't do that!!WTF?? Seriously??Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01949756584291140114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8697645378581239711.post-15245888083594480772011-01-23T05:18:22.692-08:002011-01-23T05:18:22.692-08:00oh hunny, you are not alone. I've struggled w...oh hunny, you are not alone. I've struggled with this over & over ... & over. When I try to talk (ok, confront my guy) he's like it's not what is important. ummm WTF!!!! BUT there isn't any cuddling or tender moments either. <br />It's like there is a switch in guys that once they get the girl the good stuff stops. <br />hang in there girlie!<br />xo<br />MJMJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09006052863535401013noreply@blogger.com